Have you ever been in a fight?
I used to fight a lot when I was growing up. I've been in a fight with nearly all my peer group guy because I grew up in a rough and tough neighbourhood. It have been long since I was in a physical fight with anyone but I might talk when there's a misunderstanding but never going to throw fists 🤜 now.
When was the last time you were in a fist fight? What caused the fight?
When I was growing up I was in a few fistfights in school. Nothing really major, just part of growing up in that time and place. (I also box amateur in high school and college. But that isn't a fist fight in the sense the OP means.)
"Reason is sovereign over the passions." — 4 Maccabees 1:1